VDM Fires Back After Phyna’s ‘Very Dirty Boy’ Jab

In a social media exchange that has captivated the Nigerian digital space, popular critic Martins Otse, known as VeryDarkMan (VDM), has issued a sharp rebuttal to reality TV star Phyna. The conflict erupted after Phyna, winner of Big Brother Naija Season 7, publicly labeled the activist a “Very Dirty Boy” and blamed their association for the collapse of her relationship with veteran actress Iyabo Ojo.

Phyna recently revealed that her former mentor, Iyabo Ojo, withdrew her support and unfollowed her on social media because of a controversial comment she made on one of VDM’s posts. The reality star expressed deep regret, admitting that defending VDM had cost her several influential friendships, including a rift with former housemate Vee Adeleye. According to Phyna, aligning with the “dirty boy” has left her isolated in the entertainment industry.

Responding via his Instagram story on Wednesday, January 14, 2026, VeryDarkMan expressed profound disappointment at being used as a scapegoat for Phyna’s dwindling social capital. He maintained that his support for her was always rooted in genuine goodwill and devoid of any personal or financial gain. He reminded his followers that he had consistently shown up for Phyna during various milestones, often acting as an unpaid promoter and advisor.

VDM detailed several instances where he had gone out of his way to assist the reality star, including reposting her movie promotions to his vast audience and offering strategic career guidance. He stressed that he was always accessible when she reached out, whether she was dealing with professional hurdles or sensitive family-related issues. For VDM, the narrative that he “ruined” her relationships is an unfair revision of their history.

Addressing the “dirty boy” insult, the influencer questioned the irony of the label, given that Phyna frequently sought his counsel and intervention in the past. He challenged her to state what he personally benefited from their relationship, insisting that his role was strictly that of a loyal friend who answered every call and request for help without hesitation.

VeryDarkMan also touched upon the underlying cause of Phyna’s current isolation, suggesting that it was her own choices—and a perceived sense of greed—that eventually alienated her supporters. He noted that many people who once fought for her have quietly stepped back, not because of him, but because they no longer find her actions or interests aligned with theirs.

The critic further argued that the “clout” Phyna claims to have lost was already waning due to her own handling of public controversies. He maintained that shifting the blame onto him is a convenient distraction from the personal and professional decisions that led to her fallout with figures like Iyabo Ojo. In his view, a relationship built on solid foundations would not crumble over a single social media comment.

Despite the heated exchange and the name-calling, VDM concluded his reaction with a surprisingly peaceful tone. He stated that he bears no bitterness toward the reality star, despite the public insult. He noted that he has moved on from the drama and sincerely wishes her success in her future endeavors, albeit from a distance.

This feud marks yet another chapter in the complex web of relationships involving VeryDarkMan and the Nigerian celebrity circle. While Phyna laments the loss of “Mama” Iyabo’s support, VDM appears content to stand by his “genuine” record, leaving the public to decide who truly betrayed whom in the volatile world of online influence.