Nollywood Personality Honeypot Sparks Debate: “One Minute of Sex is Enough for Me”

Nollywood actress and digital content creator Onwuson Faith Ifeoma, widely recognized by her moniker Honeypot, has ignited a social media firestorm with candid revelations about her views on intimacy and the dynamics of relationships. Appearing on “The Honest Bunch Podcast,” the online personality, whose content often delves into erotic and relationship themes, made a surprising declaration: she requires minimal time for sexual activity to feel satisfied, confidently stating that “one minute of sex is enough for me.”

Honeypot’s uncompromising statement was part of a broader discussion on modern relationships, cultural expectations, and personal priorities. She followed up her initial claim with an even more striking line, demonstrating her emotional detachment from prolonged sexual engagement: “When you are done, come down from my body.” This perspective radically departs from the common societal and media emphasis on extended sexual encounters, positioning the actress as someone who does not prioritize or even require physical duration for personal fulfillment.

Elaborating on her stance, Honeypot insisted that she is “not a sex person” and can “stay months” without it. She used this personal disposition to defend her reputation and assert her credibility as a content creator who is often approached with inappropriate propositions. “I can say it with my full chest because nobody can come out and say I have paid you for sex,” she maintained, suggesting that her lack of deep sexual reliance makes her immune to the temptations of transactional sex, or “hookups,” which she explicitly rejects. Her transparency about her low libido or interest in sex is a bold move in a public sphere often saturated with performative sexuality.

Beyond the intimate confession, the actress also offered insight into the societal norms prevalent within Igbo culture regarding marriage and success. She posited that a man’s true financial standing is not reflected in his own appearance, but rather in the visible well-being and maintenance of his wife. This cultural observation suggests that a successful Igbo man views caring for his spouse as a public display of his prosperity and competence. “In Igbo land you can see a man walking around in shorts, but if you want to know if he is rich look at his wife. That’s not stupidity. A man’s money should reflect on the woman. It shows the man is doing well,” she explained. She clarified that a woman having a job or career does not negate this responsibility; a spouse should still be financially supported and cared for by her husband.

Honeypot further shared her holistic perspective on physical closeness, arguing that affection extends far beyond sexual intercourse. She emphasized the importance of other forms of physical intimacy as crucial expressions of love and connection. For her, love is expressed through a variety of non-coital acts. “There is kissing, there is cuddling and there is biting. You bite everywhere. Biting is a form of affection,” she noted, advocating for a broader definition of intimacy that privileges emotional connection and varied physical touch over purely penetrative sex.

Her prioritizing of non-sexual factors became explicitly clear when she was presented with a hypothetical choice: selecting between a wealthy, older man with a “protruding belly” who lacked sexual prowess, and a physically fit man with “strong bedroom performance” who lacked wealth. The actress firmly chose the former, using the question to reiterate her belief that sex is not a “major priority” for her. This confirms that for Honeypot, financial stability and a comfortable lifestyle significantly outweigh sexual compatibility, aligning her personal preferences with the cultural views she expressed about a man’s success reflecting on his wife. Her unapologetic stance challenges conventional expectations, generating considerable discussion across social media platforms about sexual needs, wealth, and relationship satisfaction.